风雨同路

staring at the screen for few seconds
i was dumbfounded
it came as a shock to me
all the past memories kept playing in my mind
what had actually triggered the outcome today?


she loves him too deeply
much more than what anyone could ever imagine
the love is in excess that makes years of marriage indeed a burden for her
all the hopes and expectations that she used to have towards him
have worn out
can trace nowhere
it's time to move on, she said

i keep reminding myself all this while that
there are 3 most significant things in life
love yourself, love your partner and lastly love your marriage.

always love yourself, but not being self-centred;
love your partner as that person is your significant half who is going to get through every bits of your life with you;
love your marriage as a separate entity- a constitution which should be built up based on a number of values.

i do not know how far is that true
but i suppose there is certain message hiding behind it
it is actually a review of a book that i used to read

out of a sudden
i think it's time for me to re-correct my view towards things like marriage
a marriage of bliss or sorrow
depends on the commitment each party is willing to contribute
love is miraculous
but the ways of expressing love is much more important
as an invaluable essential to sustain a relationship

still in doubt
though